At age 51, Loie was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer. At the time of this interview, she had just celebrated five years cancer-free. Loie beat the odds.

On average, individuals with this disease survive 4-6 months after diagnosis, and only about 6% make it to five years. Early diagnosis is rare, as symptoms can be very subtle, or even nonexistent. All too often, the cancer is locally advanced or has spread outside of the pancreas by the time it is found, and surgery, the only curative treatment, is no longer an option. Even with surgery, prognosis is poor, with five year survival rates ranging from 10-30%.

Everyone copes with illness differently. For Loie, focusing on the positive was the key. She didn’t want to hear or think about the severity of her condition. In her words, “I protected myself by not knowing.” She chose not to read a lot about her cancer, and intentionally avoided the Internet. She decided she was going to get better, and, except in rare and fleeting moments, she did not allow herself to consider other options — like an early death. In talking to her young son, Chris, Loie decided to tell him that everything would be fine, even though she was well aware of the grim statistics.

Loie has been lucky, and her positive attitude has helped her along the way.

Listen to Loie’s husband, Wayne, and her son, Chris as well, as they share their experiences of having a family member with cancer.

Story first appeared on WBUR Commonhealth Blog on August 26, 2010: http://commonhealth.wbur.org/2010/08/pancreatic-cancer-kills

Resources:

To learn more about pancreatic cancer, visit

http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/pancreatic-cancer/DS00357

To find support resources and survivor stories, visit

http://www.pancan.org/section_facing_pancreatic_cancer/find_support_resources

To find information and support for families and friends of individuals facing cancer, visit

http://www.cancer.gov/cancertopics/coping/familyfriends

Gretchen Hunsberger was first diagnosed with stage 2 pancreatic cancer in 2013, which she successfully treated with radiation and chemotherapy. But fourteen months later in spring 2015, her remission ended when the cancer returned, this time at stage 4.

In June 2015, Gretchen shared her courageous story about deciding to forgo medical treatment and embrace her impending death. Gretchen realized the unparalleled value of community, and how much can be learned from individuals living in Stage 4. She mourned the loss of her vitality, but through mindfulness and meditation practices, experienced joy in the wonders of this world.

Gretchen passed away on August 31, 2015.

Resources:

To learn more about pancreatic cancer, ways to get involved, and sources of support, visit Pancreatic Cancer Action Network.

For inspiration on navigating cancer, explore Bernie Siegel and Mark Nepo's writing.